Many of us want to marry someone we love. That is so sweet. I pray it works for you. I pray you find love the way you want it.
You might love them but you may not be compatible. I’m taking this line from Mojisola.
Compatibility matters a lot. Many people are in abusive relationships today not because their partners do not love them, but because they’re square pegs trying to fit into round holes. Many who detected the signs early, have passed on love, knowing that a lifetime of discomfort is too great a price.
Pick who you can carry. Diversity is the spice of life and as such, there is someone for everyone. Try finding that someone.
As much as love matters, it is important to know if the both of you can tango. Remember it takes two. Know your ambitions. Learn each other’s strengths and weaknesses. Contrast these things with your personality and temperament. Most importantly, be honest with each other. It won’t be easy to always know who to trust but follow your heart sometimes, and your head at other times.